Renowned Nigerian author Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie has advised young women to be intentional and discerning when selecting a life partner, cautioning them against settling due to desperation or societal expectations.
While addressing students at a recent event, the 47-year-old award-winning writer emphasized the long-term significance of such a choice, urging women to prioritize kindness and support in a potential spouse.
“It’s really important who you choose. It’s really important. Young women, choose wisely,” Adichie said.
“Sometimes, as young women, you can tell that the person you’re with is not really a good person, but you’re desperate to get married.
“You’re desperate to have somebody who’s your partner. Don’t settle. Be very careful who you choose.
“The person you choose as your life partner will make a huge difference in your life.
“If you choose somebody who’s kind, supportive, it will make all the difference. So I can tell you that I chose well, there are some good men left.”
Adichie, internationally recognized for her acclaimed novels Half of a Yellow Sun and Americanah, has been married to Nigerian doctor Ivara Esege since 2009. The couple has three children—a daughter and twin boys.
Her remarks follow her recent revelation that she has reclaimed her Igbo name, Chimamanda, as a way of reconnecting with her heritage after experiencing a sense of disconnection from her identity.
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